DEAR MISS MANNERS: When dining in someone’s home, the food is often served buffet-style so each guest can fill their own dinner plate.

My husband will bypass certain foods because he does not particularly like them. He is not allergic, nor does he find these foods revolting or otherwise distasteful. He just doesn’t enjoy them.

In this situation, I believe one must sample every food the host has thoughtfully prepared — first, because menu items are chosen because they go well together, and second, because of the considerable time and effort that goes into preparing food.

In my view, it is polite to enjoy the meal as the host intended and compliment accordingly. My husband, on the other hand, thinks there is no such politeness required. He feels he shouldn’t have to put something on his plate unless he likes it. Please help us resolve this difference of opinion.

GENTLE READER: He wins.

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